
We're created for the love of God. Some can do it directly - like these nuns. Others like myself did not receive that special gift of celibate love. I do it indirectly through married love. The first one is like going up on a helicopter; the latter on the stairway. The spiritual love is obviously better but it does have it's challenges. For women, the loss of fecundity is the greatest temptation. For men, I guess it would be the inability to pass the family jewels into the next generation to somehow perpetuate oneself through a child. On the other hand, the rewards are awesome. One can focus on loving God and serving His Church in total freedom. One can fight fearlessly for the sake of God, justice or human dignity without any worry that one's child or spouse could be punished as a reprisal. But the biggest plus is that one can love the heavenly Father in the very same way as His only begotten Son. Celibate love enables one to love with that pure, total and complete self-giving of the Lord Jesus. So, one can follow, imitate and be united with the Incarnate God in the most intimate way. ( Who knows dear reader, the Lord might bless you with it - if you ask. )